为谁而活
23 Mar 2009 4 Comments
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“人要为自己而活,
不能太在乎他人的感受。”
妈妈的这句话
深得我心。
摘抄清代学者朱锡绶在《幽梦续影》的几句话,
愿大家为自己
活得更好:
素食则气不浊,
独窗则神不浊,
默坐则心不浊,
读书则口不浊.
http://teabbs.zjol.com.cn/thread-56503-1-1.html
What Women Want – How to be the One Women Desire
09 Sep 2008 14 Comments
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我只有一个表情 o_O
可以肯定的是— 这并不是一个玩笑:
Student Events
Title :
What Women Want – How to be the One Women Desire
Organizer :
NUS Toastmasters Club
Description :
Ever wish there is an enriching experiential session to address your key concerns as a male and quickly improve your personal appeal to attract that special someone? Do you wait months and years for her answer only to discover she got just attached last night — to a guy she barely knew for less than an hour?!! Ever throw your hands up in the air and exclaim, “That’s it! I’ve had enough!”
Here’s your chance to clear the doubts and find out what really goes on behind the ladies’ world, take what really works to make your personal life more exciting, enriching and exhilarating than before!
Conducted in an unique discussion cum question-and-answer format, this fun session, designed specifically for men, allows you to bring your personal questions to the front, to help you seek the answers about women and to strengthen you as that person she desires for…
In this no-holds barred exciting session, you will discover…
ü Why do some men keep getting rejected and how you can minimize or even eliminate being rejected…
ü The secret techniques of making women desire to draw themselves closer to you!
ü Why some guys could be attached in less than an hour and how you can too!
ü What are the rules of attraction for guys and why is everyone designed to play by them!
ü What makes a woman decide you might be the man she wants!
ü How to make women pay attention to you and be more attracted to you!
ü Why the lack of looks, money and status does not really matter and how to turn them to your strength…
ü The hidden ways and strategies of getting ladies to open their hearts, seeking to be with you more and more…
ü What happens when you are out with a woman and how to turn this to your advantage!
ü How to make a woman think about you constantly!
ü What are the different types of image you portray to a woman and how they affects you, which are those that aid you and those that prevent you…
ü How do you can get the women you meet to feel and experience a growing attraction for you…
ü What is The Test? Can u pass it?
ü How to get more out of your life than what it is now!
ü Answers to all the burning questions you have been wanting to ask…
ü And much, much more…
With all these insights, valuable information and skills, you will discover how a new world has opened up for you. Decide and let yourself be the man women want… today!
See you at the workshop!
(Due to the confidential and highly sensitive nature of the information, this program isSTRICTLY for MEN only. Participants are required to sign a non-disclosure agreementprior to attending the workshop.)
Date and Time :
11 September 2008 Thursday, 7:15pm
Venue :
To Be Confirmed
Price :
$25 or $15 (for groups of 2 and above)
Agenda :
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Contact :
For enquiries, contact Soo Kuang 96935936 / Gary 91380556 . To register, email nus.tmc@gmail.com
Remark :
-
Hit Count :
2006
刘翔Vs苏丽文?
24 Aug 2008 5 Comments
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你们谁爱把自己搞得终身残疾,
都请自便。
不要非但自己站得远远的,什么也不做,
还指指点点,
说不肯这么做的人不够哥们儿,
凭什么人家路人甲愿意把自己搞残疾,
你不愿意?
大清早看这么一篇文章,
真是倒胃口。
观众大爷也许买了票,
也许就付点儿电费坐在电视机前,
您的命是命,
难道运动员的命就不是命了么?
如果刘翔退赛,
大家就要失望流泪,
那么如果刘翔从此不能再跑步,
大家就会开心吗?
难道我们还需要更多的桑兰吗?
我更不明白,
如果刘翔托了一条腿走110米,
除了广告商有话可说有利可图,
其他人看这场真人秀又会满足什么样的心理?
正因为他没有做秀,
才值得力挺!
我想一些道理有些人是不会明白的。
与“五个圈”共勉
19 Aug 2008 4 Comments
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读《联合早报》之收获:
“昨天所有的荣誉
已变成遥远的回忆
勤勤苦苦已度过半生
今夜重又走入风雨
我不能随波浮沉
为了我至爱的亲人
再苦再难也要坚强
只为那些期待眼神
心若在, 梦就在,
天地之间还有真爱.
看成败, 人生豪迈,
只不过是从头再来.”
—-《从头再来》 刘欢
又想起这首歌,觉得最后两句尤其气势澎湃,激励人心,
怕什么?大不了有一天东山再起,王者归来!
从“楚人失弓”看奥运 (叶鹏飞 《联合早报》2008-08-18)
楚王出游,亡弓,左右请求之。王曰:“止,楚人失弓,楚人得之,又何求之!”孔子闻之曰:“去其‘楚’而可矣。”老聃闻之曰:“去其‘人’而可矣。”
北京奥运至今的新闻,不由得让人联想起这段典故。
楚王打猎丢失了一张心爱的宝弓,随从急着要找,楚王大方地表示,楚国人丢失的弓,还是会由楚国人得到,何必再找呢?
孔子听到了这件事后,认为楚王的境界还不够,既然弓是给人用的,就不必分国界了,所以说“去其‘楚’”;老子听了孔子的说法也认为境界不够,人和弓都是天地万物的一份子,“去其‘人’而可矣”,根本就不应该有得失之心。
……
想不到两千五百年前
孔子和老子就已经有了这样的境界。
当今的人辛辛苦苦进化了两千五百年,
还仍然要执著于国界之分,
为区区得失耿耿于怀么?
所以,那些韩国人其实是……
08 Jul 2008 4 Comments
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爱情天梯
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璇玑图
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舟舟
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