为谁而活

 

 

 

人要为自己而活,

不能太在乎他人的感受。”

 

妈妈的这句话

深得我心。

 

 

 

摘抄清代学者朱锡绶在《幽梦续影》的几句话,

愿大家为自己

活得更好:

 

素食则气不浊,

独窗则神不浊,

默坐则心不浊,

读书则口不浊.

 

http://teabbs.zjol.com.cn/thread-56503-1-1.html

 

What do you have to worry about in life?

Go be inspired by

Nick Vijicic

 

courtesy of xiaonei

What Women Want – How to be the One Women Desire

 

我只有一个表情  o_O

可以肯定的是— 这并不是一个玩笑:

 

Student Events

Title :
What Women Want – How to be the One Women Desire

Organizer :
NUS Toastmasters Club

Description :

Ever wish there is an enriching experiential session to address your key concerns as a male and quickly improve your personal appeal to attract that special someone? Do you wait months and years for her answer only to discover she got just attached last night — to a guy she barely knew for less than an hour?!! Ever throw your hands up in the air and exclaim, “That’s it! I’ve had enough!”

Here’s your chance to clear the doubts and find out what really goes on behind the ladies’ world, take what really works to make your personal life more exciting, enriching and exhilarating than before!

Conducted in an unique discussion cum question-and-answer format, this fun session, designed specifically for men, allows you to bring your personal questions to the front, to help you seek the answers about women and to strengthen you as that person she desires for…

In this no-holds barred exciting session, you will discover…

ü Why do some men keep getting rejected and how you can minimize or even eliminate being rejected…

ü The secret techniques of making women desire to draw themselves closer to you!

ü Why some guys could be attached in less than an hour and how you can too!

ü What are the rules of attraction for guys and why is everyone designed to play by them!

ü What makes a woman decide you might be the man she wants!

ü How to make women pay attention to you and be more attracted to you!

ü Why the lack of looks, money and status does not really matter and how to turn them to your strength…

ü The hidden ways and strategies of getting ladies to open their hearts, seeking to be with you more and more…

ü What happens when you are out with a woman and how to turn this to your advantage!

ü How to make a woman think about you constantly!

ü What are the different types of image you portray to a woman and how they affects you, which are those that aid you and those that prevent you…

ü How do you can get the women you meet to feel and experience a growing attraction for you…

ü What is The Test? Can u pass it?

ü How to get more out of your life than what it is now!

ü Answers to all the burning questions you have been wanting to ask…

ü And much, much more…

With all these insights, valuable information and skills, you will discover how a new world has opened up for you. Decide and let yourself be the man women want… today!

See you at the workshop!

(Due to the confidential and highly sensitive nature of the information, this program isSTRICTLY for MEN only. Participants are required to sign a non-disclosure agreementprior to attending the workshop.)

Date and Time :
11 September 2008 Thursday, 7:15pm

Venue :
To Be Confirmed

Price :
$25 or $15 (for groups of 2 and above)

Agenda :
-

Contact :
For enquiries, contact Soo Kuang 96935936 / Gary 91380556 . To register, email nus.tmc@gmail.com

Remark :
-

Hit Count :
2006

刘翔Vs苏丽文?

 

同样是伤,刘翔退了,苏丽文坚持着……

 

你们谁爱把自己搞得终身残疾,

都请自便。

不要非但自己站得远远的,什么也不做,

还指指点点,

说不肯这么做的人不够哥们儿,

凭什么人家路人甲愿意把自己搞残疾,

你不愿意?

 

大清早看这么一篇文章,

真是倒胃口。

 

观众大爷也许买了票,

也许就付点儿电费坐在电视机前,

您的命是命,

难道运动员的命就不是命了么?

如果刘翔退赛,

大家就要失望流泪,

那么如果刘翔从此不能再跑步,

大家就会开心吗?

难道我们还需要更多的桑兰吗?

 

我更不明白,

如果刘翔托了一条腿走110米,

除了广告商有话可说有利可图,

其他人看这场真人秀又会满足什么样的心理?

正因为他没有做秀,

才值得力挺!

我想一些道理有些人是不会明白的。

与“五个圈”共勉

 

读《联合早报》之收获:

 

 

“昨天所有的荣誉
已变成遥远的回忆
勤勤苦苦已度过半生
今夜重又走入风雨

我不能随波浮沉
为了我至爱的亲人
再苦再难也要坚强
只为那些期待眼神

心若在, 梦就在,

天地之间还有真爱.

看成败, 人生豪迈,

只不过是从头再来.”

—-《从头再来》 刘欢

 

又想起这首歌,觉得最后两句尤其气势澎湃,激励人心,

怕什么?大不了有一天东山再起,王者归来!

 

 

 

 

从“楚人失弓”看奥运  (叶鹏飞 《联合早报》2008-08-18)

楚王出游,亡弓,左右请求之。王曰:“止,楚人失弓,楚人得之,又何求之!”孔子闻之曰:“去其‘楚’而可矣。”老聃闻之曰:“去其‘人’而可矣。”

  北京奥运至今的新闻,不由得让人联想起这段典故。

  楚王打猎丢失了一张心爱的宝弓,随从急着要找,楚王大方地表示,楚国人丢失的弓,还是会由楚国人得到,何必再找呢?

  孔子听到了这件事后,认为楚王的境界还不够,既然弓是给人用的,就不必分国界了,所以说“去其‘楚’”;老子听了孔子的说法也认为境界不够,人和弓都是天地万物的一份子,“去其‘人’而可矣”,根本就不应该有得失之心。

  ……

想不到两千五百年前

孔子和老子就已经有了这样的境界。

当今的人辛辛苦苦进化了两千五百年,

还仍然要执著于国界之分,

为区区得失耿耿于怀么?

所以,那些韩国人其实是……

 
不寒而栗,不寒而栗啊……
 
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一时兴起,
google了一下
(是有点晚,但总还是这么做了)。
不google则已,
一google吓了一个大跟头:
 
Jung Myung Seok
 
“老师”郑明析
 
 
要不是有照片为证,
几乎不敢相信这么多的
近乎颠覆性的
报道和资料……
 
 
还有多少无辜的美少女,
要继续傻乎乎地跟随下去?
 
 
英雄的人道主义战士,
又要发光发热啦!!
 
 
 
 

爱情天梯

courtesy of zq~
 
看了这封junk email ;) ,
恍然觉得是杨过和小龙女。
 
去google一番,果然有过新闻报道:
 
姐弟恋人隐居深山半个世纪 男主人公病逝(图) (with video)
 
 
 
就算杨过和小龙女在世,
怕也要自惭形秽。
 
 
 
 
 
 

璇玑图

  click here for pic: http://imgsrc.baidu.com/baike/pic/item/8b527d27bbcfc910918f9d10.jpg 
 
竟有学者穷其一生,
来钻研这一条锦帕上绣的深闺幽情。
苏若兰女士如果知道,
也有些许受宠若惊吧。
 
谢道韫女士,
堪咏絮之才,
不料嫁了一扶不起的阿斗,
生生只留下了一首《泰山吟》的七律。
虽然舌战群儒,留下佳话,
但一首诗和一句“未若柳絮因风起”,
比起李清照女士留下的许多诗词,
不免微显单薄。
 
古代的才女的万千才情,
若没有一个值得思念的丈夫/情人,
似乎也难留下这样的传世之作。
 
 
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今日吃饱了撑得慌,
查了半晌字典,
终于看懂了一篇报道:
说的是在法国
一对新婚的回教夫妇,
新婚之夜男方就要打离婚,
原因时发现新娘不是处女,
于自己一直以来坚持的Voraussetzung相悖,
认为大受其骗。
受理的法国法庭视其为合理理由,
判其离婚成立。
 
此事就其逻辑,
本无大碍。
女的早知道男的好这一口,
自己也说“低估了贞洁在他心目中的地位”,
(潜台词:高估了爱情在他心目中的地位”)
自认倒霉,
赌博赌输了呗,
没啥。
既然双方早已把签约条件摆在了台面上,
一方未履行条件,
另一方自然有权毁约。
法庭以理宣判,
无可指责。
(八成也看穿这男的死心眼儿,
不离也没法儿过了)
 
然则这档子事儿不巧发生在以‘自由民主’自称的欧洲,
老百姓们可不让了,
思想家们和女权主义者更不让,
纷纷对当今年代要结婚还有如此Voraussetzung的人
掷以臭鸡蛋,
还说如果法律条规有所不当,
那就该改改条规了。
 
这话说得,
如果我说了我非亿万富翁不嫁,
愣有丐帮人士充大款,
我碰巧智商不高真以为傍上了大款。
等婚后其丐帮身份毕露,
难不成还让我生米煮熟饭,
哑巴吃黄连了?
 
社会各界急于攻击男主角的婚姻观,
连法律的公正性也不讲了,
实属不幸。
 
 
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花开两朵,各表一支。
话说德国媒体听说了前头这档子事儿,
不甘风头被法国出尽,
忙不迭兜出来自己国家法庭早前办的可笑事儿:
说一位穆斯林妇女在家不堪受虐,
要打离婚,
结果法庭觉得
尊重宗教
比尊重大活人之人身安全
要重要许多,
红口白牙硬说“回教妇女在家挨揍纯属正常”。
生生驳回了诉讼!
  
女士们先生们的眼睛是雪亮的:
有些人,
只要看见“回教”俩字儿
就不甘寂寞地愣往一块儿扯啊!
这俩明摆就是楚河汉界分的清楚的两回事:
一个明明办对了事,被横加指责,
倒也罢了,
自古英雄难讨天下人欢心;
另一个自作聪明,害人不倦,
没人出来揭穿你痛斥你就算了,
能不能拜托一下,
甭往自己脸上贴“尊重宗教”的金了!
 
在头版放此条新闻之报纸
还能在德国成为首要媒体之一,
众位可管中窥一下豹子,
对于西方媒体的智商也可稍作推测,
另对他们其他的某些言论也不必太过在意—-
要是篇篇如此推敲,
您老的房间不日便被木屑塞满,
大好光阴也一去不复返矣。
不如
多花点时间,
做做饭
烧烧菜啥的~
 
 
 
 
 
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今日不慎
近午时方才饮用咖啡,
以致剩余精力无处宣泄,
遂成此篇。
言语不顺之处,
勿以为意。
 
另:今后尽量早点喝咖啡。
 

舟舟

看起来甚为投缘,所以
 
要加以宣传:
 
 
舟舟指挥交响乐团《瑶族舞曲》和《北京的喜讯到边寨》
 
《舟舟的世界》CCTV.COM  3
(不知为何,4段视频里只能打开着第3段)
 
 
正所谓上天是公平的,
 
赋予舟舟这样的家庭和潜质,
 
也可能舟舟只是个幸运的个例,
 
得到公车售票员,饭店老板,商场店员,乐团团员的好心照顾。
 
 
但善良的心总是足以动人。
 
可喜可贺。
 
 
 

用爱心铺一条通往健康的路

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